The stars have so much to say about LOVE! Astrology helps you in your relationships by giving you clarity and objectivity while being deeply personal.
The personal objectivity helps you give your partner the benefit of the doubt, a broader perspective or a different lens in times of complexity. Astrology helps explain what makes you and your partner tick, the underlying motivations and how each of you make decisions.
Astrology also tells you what you require for a soul-mate love. The astrological lens opens you and your partner’s self-care, self-worth and self-love profiles, so you know how each of you is brave, what you want to master, your future energies and leadership definitions.
It lets you know how each of you will parent, if that’s your choice.
Astrology informs you of your communication style to develop a pathway to grow closer, to deepen your love, to open up to intimacy and to allow vulnerability in order to create a soulmate love.
Who Loves Who?
Looking the fire signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius, have synergy because they like the same things.
These signs are bold, exciting and adventurous.
They want to socialize and be out in the world.
Each of you desires to party, to travel, and to be larger than life.
Fire signs are creative, light-hearted and willing to take risks. They also love to be in the spotlight.
When you look at air, you have Gemini, Libra and Aquarius and each have huge mental facility and intellectual curiosity.
The air signs like to problem solve, tell story, rationalize, think critically, strategize and see patterns.
The air signs have a meeting of the minds. They love to talk, socialize and experience life fully.
Air signs are quick-witted and humorous.
In the earth signs, there’s Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn and each of the earth signs like to get things done.
They’re reliable, loyal and honest. They’re also trustworthy, stable and secure.
The earth signs really enhance each other as working is very important to them. They like to know their position in society. They like to be leaders even though their leadership styles are different. Capricorns like to lead from the front, Virgos like to lead from the middle and Taurus likes to lead from the back.
This positioning details how these signs would ‘lead’ the partner through their love life.
With the water signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces, you’re interested in home life and family.
Love is central to your life with a deep desire for intimacy. You thrive on feelings, heart-centered subjects and getting into the depths of psychology. You’re also connected to the creative and spiritual worlds.
You’re nurturing and giving, surrounding yourself with your loved ones. You love to dive deeply into the depths and get real. The more honest about feelings, the better.
Love is in the Air
Capricorn looks for long-term commitment and serious intentions in a romantic partner. She loves completely and fully and wants to ensure her mate does as well.
For harmony, Taurus and Virgo are the most compatible for earthly Capricorns. Taurus’ no nonsense approach to life and Virgo’s practicality appeal to Capricorns.
In a Taurus and Capricorn relationship, each strives for material gain, status of position and appreciation of the luxurious side of life.
With Virgo’s, the common interests with Capricorn are order and reliability.
For excitement, Scorpio’s and Pisces offer the most stimulation. Scorpio’s intensity, love of wealth and powerful impact draws Capricorn beyond her stoic leanings into a more passionate connection. Although her focus is on work most of the time, Capricorn loves to be appreciated and nurtured, so Pisces is a sign that appeals to her for understanding and compassion.
As for Aquarians, they seek intelligence and connections with others, yet fiercely guard their independence. They desire mates with mental acuity, social leanings and independent yearnings.
The most compatible sign for Aquarians is Gemini, with Libra and Sagittarius falling in close second. Geminis love ideas, insights and provoking conversations and with their distractibility, also appreciate being free to explore things on their own.
The fickleness of Gemini appeals to Aquarius as it keeps him on his toes. Libra is another good sign for Aquarius as each desire connection and collaboration. Librans ability to cooperate and create teams expands Aquarian’s definition of healthy relationship.
Sagittarius’ love of life, adventure and risk-taking tendencies appeal to Aquarius. These free-loving signs are big thinkers and social creatures who are open to explore all facets of life. Each leans into the future by dreaming of a better tomorrow. These signs are cheerful, independent and optimistic. This fiery-air combination is both exciting and fulfilling.
Love Challenges
With each of these elements, there’s a downside as there may be too much of that element. With fire, your relationship could be too passion-filled and flare out quickly. The initial attraction burns out like a flash in the pan.
With air, you may be too fickle or flighty without the depths of emotions as everything is in the mind.
In earth, boredom could set in without any relief from work and good-doing.
In the element of water, your emotions could get the better of you, drenching you with emotional depths without lift to give the relationship breath.
It’s also really tough to navigate the squares – the cardinal signs of Aries, Cancer, Libra or Capricorn; the mutable signs of Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius or Pisces or the fixed signs of Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius.
Aries tries to get along with Cancer and it’s really difficult for the impatient, fiery, robust, risk-taking Aries to handle the soft, sweet, gentle, tender, quiet Cancer.
Capricorn tries to deal with Libra, “Oh, I want everybody to get along. Let’s make sure we have cooperation, consensus and a team approach.”
“Excuse me,” Capricorn says, “Are you kidding me right now. We’ve made a decision, so let’s go. I want to get to work and get things done.”
Depending on your willingness and the soul level reasons, you can definitely get around your incompatible aspects, if it’s in your best interests to do so.
That’s the key – is it in your best interest at a heart and soul level? Your mind will tell you stories, but your heart will tell you wisdom.
Example of Cosmic Love Gone Awry
One of my clients came to me for a love reading as she was recently affianced and wanted to know how the marriage would be for her.
Unfortunately, this ‘love’ match was fraught with complications, co-dependency and strife for her.
Thankfully, she and I had worked together for a very long time as I could deliver the difficult message to her gently, yet clearly. I gave her all of the information she needed to make the relationship a success.
After much reflection and work with her partner, she realized she didn’t want to give herself over to the relationship as the cost was becoming too high. We walked through the beautiful dissolving of the relationship and she’s happily in a healthy, gorgeous committed relationship now with someone who lifts her in ways she hasn’t ever experienced.
Cosmic Love NOT
When your partner doesn’t believe in astrology and you do, you won’t have the conversation, “Hey, your Sun is in this sign, my Sun is in that sign and that’s makes us…”
However, when you get the illumination and self-awareness for you and your partner through the astrological lens, you can translate the information in non-star ways. You can say, “You love to stay home and relish the quiet nights in and you know that I really like to go out and socialize. Since both are equally important, can we find time to honor both of our needs?”
When you point out what’s important to each of you and pose it as a question, without getting into starry speak, your partner will be able to hear you and work with you to honor both of your needs. You can use the findings from the astrology to give you the insight and glean the tools you need to be able to navigate your relationship successfully.
Are You Ready for Love?
Venus and Mars in your stars give you information about who you’re attracted to from a feminine and masculine perspective. When Venus or Mars in the sky aspect Jupiter, those are positive love times. When the Sun passes either sign, love is in the air for you.
The stars have so much to say to you about love and in this love month, it’s time to celebrate you and your cosmic love.
Your typical monthly planner is missing a key ingredient and that’s magic – the magical powers of the stars, your energies and the earthly seasonal elements. You’re made of soil and stars, so aligning with these influences improves your chances of success.
You’re not required to know a single thing about astrology or earthly energies, yet clearing your mind and opening your heart to this level of support helps you develop your own intuitive skills.
Letting your mind accept the opportunities from the cosmos and the earth, while marking key dates and noting how your own calendar lines up with these events, helps you avoid pitfalls and take advantage of these positive forces.
Bookmark this link to refer to throughout the month or print out the planner for easy reference
Peruse the monthly summary at the top of the planner to get the overall vibe and read the tips for your Intuitive Success Signatureat the bottom of the planner
Note the big star eventsand mark your calendar
Review the monthly magical tools of oracle card, crystal, spiritual animal and flower essence
If you’re feeling troubled by the monthly energies, keep the monthly magical tools handy, either physically in your own space or mentally within your imagery for the month
At the start of each week, read the weekly tips for that particular week (I also do a weekly reel on social media every Monday morning)
Follow the moon cycles and set aside space to celebrate the New and Full Moons. I also do rituals on Your Star Path to Success Podcast. Subscribe on your favorite player.
Monthly Planner Tips for Each Intuitive Success Signature
Each Intuitive Success Signature has a tendency, so let’s follow it.
Wise Strategists – Read the seasonal energies to get your overall strategy for the month, then take note of the weekly energies and review your activities so you get a jump on the month.
Intuitive Visionaries –Listen to the podcast episode instead of NOT reading this planner despite your best intentions.
Collaborative Explorers – Read your tip at the bottom of this planner and journal how to create space for you to incorporate it into your monthly plans.
Ruling Warriors – Click here to hop on a call with me so we can strategize your best steps.
Creative Superstars – Jump right to the monthly magical tools and figure out how to use them during the month.
New Era Success Formula is Stars + Signatures + Strategy = Success
The New Era Success Formula combines understanding yourself (‘Stars’), aligning with your authentic energy (‘Signatures’), and taking clear, confident action (‘Strategies’) to create a pathway to success.
Stars
The stars either work with you or against you and it all depends on whether you know what they’re up to or not. This monthly star-powered planner sets you up to take advantage of these powerful forces. Using the stars strategically helps you remove the blocks to your success and achieve your personal, professional and financial triumph.
Signatures
Your energetic signature known as, your Intuitive Success Signature, measures how you enter your day. You may put everything through your mind to think about your best path forward or you may want to connect with others as your first inclination. This is the ‘what you know’ versus ‘who you know’ alternatives. Or you may take action (or procrastinate against it) as your first response.
Wise Strategists and Intuitive Visionaries push everything through their minds. Collaborative Explorers and Ruling Warriors are concerned where they lie in comparison with other people. Creative Superstars and Loving Alchemists either take action or not depending on what’s going on around them.
Strategies
Proven strategies involve personal and business actions that you incorporate into your daily, weekly or monthly routines to develop habits more aligned with your soul mission. Relying on the cosmos and the earthly energies supports you in saving time, money and resources.
February Star Power
Monthly Summary
February: Appreciate Your Priorities
Sun signs – Aquarius & Pisces
Seasonal energies: Origin of Purpose with Imbolc on the 1st Energetic Element: Air Overall meaning: New ideas flow, but discernment is required. Some of these ideas are yours and others are merely distractions. People also come in and out of your sphere of influence, so the key is to identify how these people can support you or help you pursue opportunities.
Not many activities are meant to be acted on, they are presented to test your fortitude in holding your best interests at heart.
The seasonal dance is one of renewal and flow that can be used to harness in order to propel your success.
The seasonal dance begins by opening your full potential which expands until it becomes unwieldy. At which time, it’s necessary to optimize your influence through purposeful actions. Once you’ve harnessed this potential-filled purpose, you generate power, expanding your ability to make impact. Curating your powerful impact creates prosperity and then you’re ready to begin the cycle again.
During each season, you can leverage the zodiac energy, elemental force and earthly rhythms to boost your chances for success.
Season of Purpose
Seasonal Attributes
Months: February, March, April Astrological signs: Aquarius, Pisces, Aries Earthly Element: Air Apex: Equinox Northern Gateway: Imbolc Affinity: Male expression Impact: Intentional planning
The quickening of the energies ignites the divine spark to create in a purposeful union of possibility and planning. Set your strategy and be mindful to create your satisfying success. This is primarily a yang, focused time, but leaning into the yin, strategic view point, wise prospective and intentional outlay of energy boosts your desired growth.
This is primarily a masculine time of strength to use your logic and purposeful planning skills. The season of purpose adores the linear processing, reasoning and scheduling aspects to get everything on the calendar to achieve the goals outlined in the strategy from the season of potential.
Magically, relax into the air element to learn to go with the flow, be flexible and stay in balance with the natural contracting and expanding influences of life. Change your mind, shift your perspective and see things fully. You can open your intuitive knowing through observation and perception for your best first steps.
Practically, align your schedule with the seasons and calendar with the cosmos. Infuse your goals and targets into your overall strategy. Set up your reports – financial, operational and marketing – to determine your capacity and resource needs. Begin to attract the right people into your world.
Seasonal Flow of Purpose
The Season of Potential becomes thoughtful and intentional as it moves into the Season of Purpose, where you put pen to paper, details to strategy and goals to ideas. Your yang skills are called for as you bring the inspiring thoughts and ideas into being. Making it real is your mantra. The pushing wheel of energy runs thin as you take out the magic and fill everything with the practical.
Using the Season of Purpose for Success
Each season has a primary element you can leverage to get things accomplished throughout the year.
Season of Purpose relies on the air element for planning and defining your initial strategy. The air element speaks to your mind to foster a left-brain response to the dreamy aspect of establishing your vision for the year. Determining goals, setting targets and outlining objectives is an excellent response to this season. Setting your calendar for collaborations is a requirement to fully grow your business.
Intuitive Success Signatures Tools for Purpose
Wise Strategist – This is your favorite season. Let your natural gifts, talents and skills come to the fore. Taking your strategy and setting all the goals, targets, objectives and schedules comes naturally to you. Take the lead to convey the high-level pillars and milestones to your team. Inspire others to help you.
Intuitive Visionary – You’re challenged to stay on track and be detail-oriented. You have much more success thinking in big picture terms. Yet, you actually can fold the details into your overall strategy when you stay in touch with WHY you’re dealing with those pesky particulars. Remembering your why is the key.
Collaborative Explorer – Make a list of your key resources, networking buddies, collaborators, prospects, clients and alumni to identify your key opportunities and required support. Set up processes and scripts for outreach. Reach out to a handful of people every week. Keep on a regular schedule and remember to ask for the support and opportunities you desire.
Ruling Warrior – You love this season as everyone becomes goal-oriented and you can easily relate to them. You’ve set it all up to make this your best year ever. Yet, you need support to help you achieve them without overwork, exhaustion and stress. Take the time to actually communicate your goals, targets and objectives to others to get them on board.
Creative Superstar – This is your worst season when you focus on the planning aspects of it, but this season, with its airy flow, can be an excellent one when you pay attention to the creation aspects of it. Use the movement and flow to create a living vision board to bring your goals into fruition.
Loving Alchemist – Energize your strategy with your powerful passions and deep desires. Add fuel when marking your calendar for events, selecting people to support you or carving out time to seek opportunities. Aligning your heart and soul with your mindful intentions provides the foundation to make this year the one you truly love.
Case Study for Purpose
Before
A landscape designer, who is a Collaborative Explorer, was working for a company that was growing, but not demonstrating solid leadership. He was frustrated, making too little money and working too many hours. He had responsibility without authority.
He wanted to start his own company, but due to his experiences in the field, he didn’t want to employ anyone.
He basically wanted to get relief without actually thinking about how starting a company would affect him and his family.
He had no clear direction other than getting out of his current situation. He actually quit his job, without any opportunities lined up, at the worst possible time in the season.
After
First, I walked into his stars and conveyed his life purpose that 100% involved leadership. There was no getting around it, his soul wanted him to be a leader.
Second, we removed his inability to wear his power through healing facilitation, magical clearing and daily energetic ‘wearing his power pants’ in order to align his energy with his life purpose.
Third, we defined his purposeful strategic direction and gave him all of the tools to become a successful entrepreneur.
Fourth, because of his hesitancy to become a leader, we set up a business model that could delay this possibility as long as it took to remove his block.
Fifth, we removed his leadership block(s) to clear his pathway for success.
Bottom line: He blew away his targets in the 1st year by realizing $250,000 and in 2 years, he increased his revenues by 567%.
You get a boost of mental energy that pushes you to pursue everything that comes into your mind. Ideas, solutions and conversations abound.
Captain distraction is back.
This is a preview of how you’re going to react when Uranus moves into Gemini on July 7th. In this case, Jupiter is the harbinger of what’s to come. While the personal planets, Mercury, Venus and Mars move through own retrograde period from November 2024 – April 2025, you get to play with this Jupiter in Gemini energy to become accustomed to it while other stars are quiet and supportive.
February 7 – Dreamy Imaginings in February with Neptune
With Neptune blending with the soul destiny on February 7th, you get a blast of intuitive energy to pursue your spirituality. Neptune creates an opportunity to take a spiritual deep dive while letting go of the mental distractions and yearning to work, work, work. Relaxing or seeking healing remedies is the perfect way to leverage this cosmic configuration
February 23 – Feeling Trapped and Victimized
Detail: Mars stations direct at 17° Cancer
In the realm of the earth, Mars retrograde from Leo to Cancer in the last month has wreaked havoc as expressed with the fires in LA. Literally, the fire from Leo moves into the home of Cancer to blaze a path that makes you step boldly and bravely into a brand-new future.
Mars isn’t soft or sweet. He’s the God of War. When he’s threatened, he asks, “Will you be the hunter or the prey?” Only when you become the hunter will he step away from accidents, disasters, weather events such as infernos.
What does Mars want you to know about being brave?
From a cosmic perspective, Mars has been driving you crazy with his pulling back of forward motion. He’s aggravated family, finances and going with the flow since January 6th and prior to that, he frustrated you by putting obstacles in front of you that prevents you from showing up for yourself and with others, especially in the public sphere.
Now, he’s finished with his antics and gets back on track, but he detests being in the sign of Cancer. He loathes the watery, overly sensitive, home-bodied Cancer. He feels trapped by the ‘over-caring for others’ nature.
Mars is more selfish, active and bold than Cancer lets him be.
From now until April 18th, Mars marinates in the syrupy family soup with its past history and stories about your early years. You have the opportunity to explore the depths of love with your loved ones, yet it depends on your patience and tolerance for hearing about your cute and embarrassing antics while growing up.
February 24- 28: Forward Motion
Detail: All planets are stationed direct
Every planet in the sky is moving faster than the Earth right now, but it’s only a glimmer of 4 days. Typically, this forward-moving period is much longer – up to a few months. For this quick business week, things can come together for you before Venus stations retrograde on March 1st.
Weekly Success Maps
Week 1: February 1 – 9
The big news this week is Venus moving into Aries, while Jupiter stations direct and Neptune blends with the collective soul destiny. Here’s what I’ve written about Venus in Aries in the past, “This feminine goddess moves into a masculine sign filled with passion, adventure and fiery energy. She’s activated beyond her typical boundaries, so can be impatient, aggressive or ambitious in Aries. She’s also a bold badass, like a Warrior Princess. I call Venus Brave Heart when she’s in Aries.”
There’s a significant number of star angles this week, specifically 8, not counting the 3 major star shifts mentioned above. With all of this cosmic activity, the stars conspire to shock your mind and open your heart.
Be loyal to yourself and others.
Commit to being the best version of you – striving for satisfaction as well as success.
The bottom line is for you to show up for yourself in ways that bring you joy, love and abundance.
Week 2: February 10 – 16
Showing appreciation to those who’ve helped you or valued you in some way keeps you on track. When you show others how much you appreciate them, you celebrate your life and how you’ve created positive and uplifting relationships.
Whispering sweet nothings to others, writing gratitude notes and giving gifts lift your abundance energy, especially when you show appreciation for yourself too.
Surprising and exciting news makes you come alive. Embrace it even when it knocks you off center. This new happening is about stretching you for future growth.
If you want more support for the entire year, check out the Soul-driven success series. This series teaches you to let your soul lead, so you create more ease, joy and abundance.
Week 3: February 16 – 23
This is a great week to turn things around, so reaching out to former clients and rekindling connections with those you’ve lost touch with are perfect steps to take this week. With the Sun moving into Pisces, connection is the center of the energy for the next month.
Be discerning with new opportunities as some of these are too good to be true. Exercise caution and take calculated risks. Taking a huge risk isn’t good for you, but big dreams and small steps is the best way forward for you.
Week 4: February 24 – 28
This is a fortunate week, filled with forward movement and conclusive actions. New ways of looking at problems and situations gives you a fresh perspective on how to resolve them.
Getting serious and committing to yourself and others creates success for you.
Take care of business, make connections and brings things to their final conclusion are positive for you right now.
Moon Magic
The Moon is incredibly powerful as she moves the tides on earth. Think about that power for a moment. The Moon moves the ocean and since people are 70% water, the Moon moves each person whether you’re aware of it or not. The Moon is also amazingly personal as she represents your heart.
If you’d like to dive more deeply into the energies of the Moon, here’s free access to my Bella Luna course, a 4-part video series and related guide. It’s really fun and informative. Get your access here.
When the Moon moves through her phases, she gives you the ability to leverage her power for that part of her cycle. The Moon phases help manifest things you want, celebrate things you have and get rid of things you no longer want.
Here’s a summary of the phases and what you should do:
The New Moon is for setting your strategy.
From the New to Full Moon, it’s the time to manifest, appreciate and create.
The Full Moon is for taking stock in gratitude and refinement.
From the Full to New Moon, it’s the time to celebrate, release and merge.
Details: February 12 @ 8:54 am ET Full Moon with Sun in Aquarius & Moon in Leo at 24°
The Moon is in Aquarius and the Sun is in Leo making you want to break freefrom any limits that have been in your way blocking you from fulfilling your goals.
Leo is impatient with how slowly things have been moving these last few months. Change and opportunity is here, it just may be hidden behind frustration, distraction and confusion. Things aren’t as they appear and this may be positive or negative, depending on your point of view.
Get passionate about who you are and what you do to stretch into your future. Take a few deliberate steps today.
New Moon: Plunge into Generosity
Details: February 27 @ 7:46 pm ET New Moon with Sun & Moon in Pisces at 9°
Creative and generous Pisces holds the space for you to stretch into your true purpose by helping you embody your hidden gifts without being inhibited by your mind’s negative self-talk. This is the time for dreaming, imagining and envisioning.
Be generous with yourself and others and watch as things open up for you in new and unexpected ways.
Say YES to deep connections that feel positive for you. Develop serious partnerships during this New Moon. Take advantage of the business positivity this week by inviting, offering and selling. Lean into the magical tools of the month to amplify your dreams, intentions and actions.
Magical tools
Divination Tool for Your Mind
Oracle cards can help you move your mind from running amuck to slowing down, so you can begin to develop your intuition to communicate with your soul.
The oracle cards bring insight into what’s coming for the month. They give your mind something to focus on and remember as you go through the days and weeks. You can ponder the card or go into the guidance in the book when you need more than mental reminders.
The earthly kingdoms help you shift your vibration through their power and move your energy from your mind into your heart. The animal kingdom help you get things done, the crystals help you realize your intentions by adding their energy to yours
The power of animal and crystal energy are easy to employ to help you create the success and satisfaction you desire. Spirit animals are always willing to assist. Simply call on the animal to bring their power into focus and ponder the animal meaning. When you’re facing issues, the animal energy can help navigate through or around them.
For crystals, grab the crystal and put it on your desk, purse or kitchen table. The crystal can be activated through your intentional goals or your dreams or wishes. The crystal holds this intention for you for the entire month. Crystals can also support your ability to release blocks so you can clear your pathway. When you want to align with your success and this month’s stone helps you do that.
Flower essences are gentle, yet incredibly powerful to help your emotional body. They smooth out thoughts and emotions as they help you align with your soul. I adore flower essences because they represent their mature growth in nature to give you their healing properties without having to leave your home or office.
To take flower essences, simply put 3 drops into water 3 times a day and feel the gentle support for your body and emotions.
Monthly Oracle Card: #9 – Embody
Embody: Deepen trust in yourself
When you pick the embody card that symbolizes you living to your full potential by walking your own path.
The message of this card is to “actively live your full potential and walk in wholeness as a spiritual human being.”
Seek to express your potential by taking action to pursue your true life purpose.
Be your potential.
Come out into the world with your unique gifts. Integrate your spiritual nature in practical ways and express magic by living it on a daily basis.
The number 9 of the cards represents the wholeness of cycles, when one cycle completes and another begins. The 9 also represents taking internal attributes and bringing them out into world. This number asks you to explore, think big and delve into another new expression of yourself and the world.
Spirit Animal: Rhinoceros
Rhinoceros is great for abundance and blessings. Most spiritual meaning of rhinoceros focuses on the strength of this animal and while this is true, rhinoceros is an abundant being. This animal helps you appreciate the beauty and bounty around you that you may either take for granted or not be observing.
This animal is the closest to the meaning of ‘of course’ that allows you to be chill and comfortable with the universe supporting you while you stay in complete faith that all is well.
Pressing further, rhinoceros moves you to be able to believe fully in yourself and the universal powers having your best interests at heart.
Living in full appreciation is possible when you call on rhinoceros.
Crystal: Petalite
Petalite asks something from you as she supports you to your spiritual alignment. Petalite opens you to the connection with the divine and can communicate with angels, guides and celestial beings, while deepening your attachment to the earthly magical energies.
She also helps you meditate for developing your intuition and is a strong healer of ancestral blocks. Petalite is a powerhouse, so you want to ensure you’re ready to receive her medicine.
You can use Petalite when journaling, meditating, healing and connecting to your higher self. You can also rely on Petalite to increase your ability to connect with the earthly kingdoms of animals, plants and crystals.
Flower Essence: Red Chestnut
Red Chestnut moves you from co-dependence to autonomy. At first glance, you may be thinking, “I’m not co-dependent, so this flower essence won’t help me.” Let’s look more closely, whenever you’re more concerned for another person more than they’re concerned for themselves. Every coach or consultant can fall into this situation.
I’ve always told my consultants, “You can’t care more than the client.” This is true. Just because you’re the coach, guide or mentor, the other person has to be more invested into their growth, healing or transformation more than you.
Imbalances are created when the coach, consultant or service provider is more invested than the client. This also holds true for CEOs or leaders for their people or team members.
On the personal side, this can be true for parents, partners, relatives or friends. Think about the times you’ve found yourself saying, “If only he or she does x,y,z, then they’ll be fine.” When you are more concerned, invested or energetically involved more than the other person, reach for red chestnut.
Practical Tips for Right Action
Collaborative Explorers are particularly susceptible to the over-care of others, so red chestnut flower essence is perfect for them to let go and concentrate on themselves. I feel that everyone can benefit from this flower essence. Creative Superstars also benefit due to their empathic capabilities. When you feel other’s illness, negative or low energy, you can use the support of red chestnut.
When you take red chestnut, you move from ____ to ______. Let’s look at the following table:
Red Chestnut Shifts
From
To
Imbalance with the connection for another
Balanced respect in relationships
Over-concern for safety of another
Practical concern, not overly attached
Worry about problems of others
Empathize without being swept up
Feel symptoms of illness in others
Sense without taking on the energy
Too connected to others
Stand in your own authority
Tell children/grandchildren to be careful
Have faith in the safety of others
Burden others with your worry
Spend energy on wellbeing
Affirmations to accompany this flower essence are, “I concentrate on myself,” “I am the center of my life,” and “I am me and you are you.”
If you want to learn more about how to stay focused on you, check out the Soul-driven success series. It gives you the support you need to keep yourself in the center and to let your soul lead.
Intuitive Success Signature Forecasts
Following my success-making Do You Know, Like and Trust Yourself ® methodology, tap into the energies of your Intuitive Success Signature for the best results this month. If you haven’t taken the quiz yet, here’s the link.
Wise Strategist
Change is in the air. Say YES to the win as you rise like the phoenix and rise from the ashes. Good things are here for you right now. The key is to pay attention and observe the blessing around you. Soar brightly and let others see you fully for all of your gifts and expertise. It’s your time to shine.
Intuitive Visionary
Ideas, inventions and creative solutions are coming to you in full force for the entire month. Capture those that fit into your soul-aligned path forward and disregard those that don’t fit. Don’t give them a second thought as these aren’t yours and will only distract you.
Collaborative Explorer
Carve out time this month for spending time with your loved ones – friends or family. This gives you a burst of energy that helps you to use your voice, to show up for yourself, and to lead from the front. Balance is a flow – on one side, fill yourself and on the other side – embrace your leadership role.
Ruling Warrior
Ask for advice from those you trust and then follow it as long as it makes sense for you and your soul mission. Take command without leading from the front. This is a partnership, collaboration and time to seek guidance. It’s also a time to invest in yourself in terms of your soul mission and alignment with your true purpose. When you do, you can expand your abundance.
Creative Superstar
Be audacious. This month is for you to set wild and outlandish intentions, specifically on the New Moon on the 27th. For the entire month, you can accept financial wins when you show up for yourself. Get visible. Invite others into your world and make offers to sell your creations.
Loving Alchemist
Get to the bottom of things to reveal what’s hidden. Let your genius out to shine for others to see. Your power helps others find their power. Make the connection with the universal powers and your own power to create a vortex that extends to you, your people and the world.
Bottom line
February is a month to demonstrate your appreciation for the power all around you – particularly the people who are important to you, personally and in your business. Getting creative, being generous and showing up for yourself are the ways you stretch into your future. The cosmos have your best interests at heart and conspire to give you more love and money. Savor these slower moments – you’re going to wish for them later this year.
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